• We’ve all experienced it  that unspoken connection to the emotions and energies of those around us. Whether it’s the infectious excitement of a friend’s good news or the draining effect of being near someone who’s struggling, our bodies respond to the energies we encounter.

    The Power of Emotional Contagion.

    When we’re around someone who’s enthusiastic or passionate, their energy can be palpable. We might find ourselves feeling more energized or motivated simply by being in their presence. Conversely, being around people who are negative or depressed can leave us feeling drained or lethargic. This is the reason why some people will advise you to stay away from your negative minded friends, because if you dont have the strength to pull yourself out of it then you would be stuck there with them.

    Why This Happens ?

    Our bodies are constantly interacting with the energies around us becauss it is a magnet, whether we’re aware of it or not. This can be attributed to various factors, including:

    Empathy: Our ability to understand and share the feelings of others can make us more susceptible to the energies we encounter and this happens only because we are drawn to the similarity in the kind of Energy that you had to transmute and you basically almost drawn to help them do their school work.

    Vibrational Resonance: The idea that everything in the universe vibrates at specific frequencies, and our bodies can resonate with the energies we encounter.

    We are the same: Another reason it easy to make us contagious of each other’s energy state is because we are the same. We are all made from the same source and share the same characteristics. For that reason, we can infect each other.


    Being Mindful of Energy

    By being more aware of the energies we encounter, we can take steps to protect ourselves and cultivate a more positive environment. This might involve:

    Setting boundaries: Limiting our exposure to negative energies or people who drain us. The best way to do this is to admit to yourself that you are an energy beign and sometimes some things are just easy to transmute so it makes no sense to do it for just anyone.

    Practicing self-care: Engaging in activities that help us recharge and maintain our own energy levels is very important to living an overall happy life. Self care looks and sounds different to everyone, it can range from taking a bath, treating yourself to expensive stuff and sleeping all day.

    Surrounding ourselves with positivity: Seeking out people and environments that uplift and inspire us is also important as we can use the energy Contagion theory to our advantage by surrounding ourselves with people who have no problems alchemising negative energy themselves so you dont have to step in and do it for them.

    Ignoring problems you dont have the solution to: The world is full of negative stimulation and all it does is send us into negative spirials. In those cases it best to detach from those kind of problems. Apart from the spreading awareness that we dont support the evil going on all we can do is emotionally detach so we dont stay in a negative headspace and attract more negativity.


  • Feeling like you deserve something can be a powerful motivator. It’s a sense of entitlement that stems from a deep-seated belief that you’re worthy of achieving your goals and living the life you want.


    When you feel like you deserve something, you’re more likely to take action and pursue it with confidence and determination and even if you fail you dont allow the sore feeling of failure stop you from trying again, you treat it as chance to pivot, to move again this time with more clarity and experience.

    The calm feeling that surges through the body, when one is in situations that one has experienced before, is underrated. It is usually what seperates winners and losers.

    The Psychology Behind Deservingness.

    Deservingness is closely tied to self-worth and self-esteem. When you believe in your own worthiness, you’re more likely to:

    Take risks: You’ll be more willing to step out of your comfort zone and take risks to achieve your goals.
    Persevere: You’ll be more resilient in the face of obstacles and setbacks, and you’ll be more likely to keep pushing forward.


    Believe in yourself : You’ll have more confidence in your abilities and your worthiness, which will help you stay motivated and focused.
    Move with confidence.

    Cultivating a Sense of Deservingness.

    If you’re struggling to feel like you deserve something, here are a few strategies that might help:

    1. Replace music with affirmations and askfirmations: The subconscious mind doesn’t have feelings. If you have a desire, the best way to tell it is to repeat it over and over again. Listening to music that doesn’t make you feel like you deserve the stuff you want is a waste of time.


    2. Practice self-care: Take care of your physical, emotional, and mental well-being. When you feel good about yourself, you’re more likely to feel like you deserve good things.


    3. Challenge negative self-talk : Notice when you’re engaging in negative self-talk and challenge those thoughts by reframing them in a more positive and realistic way.


    4. Celebrate your achievements: Acknowledge and celebrate your achievements, no matter how small they may seem. This can help you build confidence and feel more deserving of good things.

    The Power of Deservingness in Action.

    When you feel like you deserve something, you’re more likely to take action and pursue it with confidence and determination. This can lead to:

    Getting more opportunities: Opportunities are usually just waiting around for us to go and pick them up and feeling like you deserve opportunities is enough reason to pick up or create those opportunities.

    Greater success:  By believing in your own worthiness, you’ll be more likely to achieve your goals and live the life you want.

    Increased happiness: When you feel like you deserve good things, you’re more likely to experience joy and happiness.

    Improved relationships:  You are magnet, so by believing in your own worthiness, you’ll be more likely to attract positive relationships and experiences into your life.

  • The best part of everything enjoyable is the moment before it begins.
    It is the breath before laughter, the silence before music, the stillness before a kiss.
    In that fragile pause, time holds its breath, stretching seconds into eternity.
    Anticipation paints the world brighter than reality ever could.
    The meal tastes sweetest before the first bite, the journey feels grandest before the first step, and love burns brightest in the heartbeat before it is spoken aloud.
    Perhaps joy is never fully in the thing itself,
    but in the trembling expectation of what it might become.

    Love is no different.
    It’s in the quiet glances that haven’t yet become words,
    the almost-touch of hands that lingers in the air,
    the pause where hearts lean toward each other but haven’t crossed the line.
    That space — fragile and infinite — holds more fire than the act itself.
    Because once love begins, it belongs to reality, but before it starts, it belongs to imagination.
    And imagination can make a single second feel like forever.
    Maybe that’s why falling in love feels endless.
    Because the sweetest part of love is not when it is ours,
    but when it is just about to be.