Feeling like you deserve something can be a powerful motivator. It’s a sense of entitlement that stems from a deep-seated belief that you’re worthy of achieving your goals and living the life you want.


When you feel like you deserve something, you’re more likely to take action and pursue it with confidence and determination and even if you fail you dont allow the sore feeling of failure stop you from trying again, you treat it as chance to pivot, to move again this time with more clarity and experience.

The calm feeling that surges through the body, when one is in situations that one has experienced before, is underrated. It is usually what seperates winners and losers.

The Psychology Behind Deservingness.

Deservingness is closely tied to self-worth and self-esteem. When you believe in your own worthiness, you’re more likely to:

Take risks: You’ll be more willing to step out of your comfort zone and take risks to achieve your goals.
Persevere: You’ll be more resilient in the face of obstacles and setbacks, and you’ll be more likely to keep pushing forward.


Believe in yourself : You’ll have more confidence in your abilities and your worthiness, which will help you stay motivated and focused.
Move with confidence.

Cultivating a Sense of Deservingness.

If you’re struggling to feel like you deserve something, here are a few strategies that might help:

1. Replace music with affirmations and askfirmations: The subconscious mind doesn’t have feelings. If you have a desire, the best way to tell it is to repeat it over and over again. Listening to music that doesn’t make you feel like you deserve the stuff you want is a waste of time.


2. Practice self-care: Take care of your physical, emotional, and mental well-being. When you feel good about yourself, you’re more likely to feel like you deserve good things.


3. Challenge negative self-talk : Notice when you’re engaging in negative self-talk and challenge those thoughts by reframing them in a more positive and realistic way.


4. Celebrate your achievements: Acknowledge and celebrate your achievements, no matter how small they may seem. This can help you build confidence and feel more deserving of good things.

The Power of Deservingness in Action.

When you feel like you deserve something, you’re more likely to take action and pursue it with confidence and determination. This can lead to:

Getting more opportunities: Opportunities are usually just waiting around for us to go and pick them up and feeling like you deserve opportunities is enough reason to pick up or create those opportunities.

Greater success:  By believing in your own worthiness, you’ll be more likely to achieve your goals and live the life you want.

Increased happiness: When you feel like you deserve good things, you’re more likely to experience joy and happiness.

Improved relationships:  You are magnet, so by believing in your own worthiness, you’ll be more likely to attract positive relationships and experiences into your life.

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